Hi, I’m Kirby. I help couples prepare for marriage and navigate the nuances of married life.
Engaged couples may feel outwardly excited while inwardly nervous and uncertain about how their marriage will go or if they are truly ready for this commitment. Some feel so secure with their partner that they overlook hard conversations that will likely impact their future together. They may have had wonderful role models that showed them what a loving and healthy marriage looks like. They want this for themselves, but just aren’t certain how to go about it. They may have had parents or caregivers who divorced or had a strained marriage and want to avoid some of what influenced their struggles. And the reality is that relationships can be beautiful and they can be hard. There is no pretending or rose-colored glasses here. I’m here to help you fill your marital tool-box with information, skills, and strategies to enhance your personal growth and relationship with your soon-to-be spouse.
Newlywed & Married Couples
When thinking about their relationship with their partner, couples may feel confusion, disappointment, and hurt. They struggle with feeling like a team and have difficulty feeling seen and heard by one another. It’s exhausting feeling like and functioning as a team of one. What they really want is to do life together with their partner. They feel the busyness of their day-to-day responsibilities compounds the already strained areas of their relationship and what used to seem like simple and easy resolutions has become complicated and more difficult to sort out. They want life to be simple and more balanced and their relationship to flourish. If you’re experiencing stressors that are impacting your relationship or marriage, I’d love support you and your partner in taking the next steps on your personal and relationship growth journey.
“Friendship fuels the flames of romance . . .” – John Gottman
When it comes right down to it, I want to support you in building and sustaining a lasting and fulfilling relationship. I want you and your partner to feel confident in having not-so-sexy conversations that help you grow more deeply together. I want you to feel more peace knowing that as a couple you have put in the work that is going to help you create and maintain your joy-filled forever together.